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Headstone Symbolism

We are often asked about the various symbols on headstones. Committee member, Sue Guest, has collated the following information and photos using examples from Karori Cemetery. We will continue to add to this as we undertake more research.

Death’s Head/Cherub

The skull and crossbones symbolised death on tombs in the 17th century in Britain. This then developed into a skull with wings which symbolised the fleeting nature of life. By the 19th century the skull had become a human face. 

From plot: Henry STAFF *Public 2/N/120

Faith

One of the Christian virtues was faith. This is represented in Cemetery art by a woman clinging to a cross. This cross is on stoney ground. The inscription is “Rock of Ages” which refers to God and is the first line of an old hymn. This headstone also has acanthus leaves on each side. These are often seen in classical architecture.

From plot: Harriett Ann DEMPSEY *Ch Eng/B/28

Why are there Passionfruit vines on the Headstone?

The passionfruit flower and vine appear on some headstones. This is not a plant that is mentioned in the Bible. The genus of plants, now named Passiflora, is mainly from South America.

The term “Passion” refers to the suffering of Christ from the Last Supper to his death on the Cross.   The Spanish missionaries in South America used the complex feature of the flower of the Passion fruit to explain the elements of the crucifixion story. Hence the name of the plant with the belief that Christ, through his suffering was sent to save us.

New Zealand does have one native Passiflora, the Kōhia which grows in Otari. The Banana Passionfruit, which is also found in the bush around Wellington is a weed which will smother native plants.

Eleanor Jane WATERS * Ch Eng/A/110
(Eleanor is the name on the headstone but Helnor Jane WATERS is the name in the cemetery record)
From plot: Sarah FLEET * Public 2/D/20
From plot: Alex Mcneel CAIRD * Public 2/K/72

Hand of God

An ancient way of representing God is to show a hand. On this headstone the hand is coming out of the cloud that surrounds the wrist. The index finger is reaching down to a broken chain. This is a symbol of the ties that bind a family which have been broken and will be established when they meet in Heaven. This grave includes Hiram Hart who died aged 33 and his mother who died aged 87.

Plot: Hiram Bennett M HART  *Public/A/125

Broken Flower

Flowers are common symbols on headstones but sometimes they are broken. A lily which was the traditional Victorian flower of death and mourning. The broken stem is often symbolic of a life cut short. In this case it is Frederick Roberts who died at the age of 21.

Plot: Frederick. W. W. ROBERTS *Public/K/45

Clasped Hands

A common symbol on headstones in Karori cemetery is that of clasped hands. These represent the hands of the living and the deceased clasped in farewell. In Karori they often appear on headstones for married couples.

By convention the hand of the woman is on the left and the man on the right. The woman usually has a lace cuff and the man a shirt sleeve. The man’s index figure often points downwards.

John Amos PALMER and Minnie PALMER – *Public 2/J/24
Plot: Margaret READ and William H READ – *Public 2/F/44
Plot: Christopher MONCRIEFF and Catherine MONCRIEFF – *Public 2/E/31
Plot: William JAMESON and Ellen JAMESON – *Ch Eng/#/58

Draped Urns

Draped Urns are quite a visible symbol in Karori Cemetery. The urn is taken from the classical Greek imaginary. They are a symbol of fate or the lottery of life.

Headstones in Karori vary. They may include a garland of flowers. Often, they are draped with a veil which symbolises the journey from life to death.

Some urns have flames coming out of top showing new life associated with death.

Plot: Archie J. H. COLQUHOUN – *Public 2/A/2
Plot: Albert Ernest TONKS – *Public/L/135

The Dove of Peace and the Gates of Heaven

Some headstones have strong Christian symbolism. This one concerns the promise of life after death. This headstone has an arch and an open gate representing the Gates of Heaven. It depicts the soul of the deceased passing through the gates to eternal life.  The dove of peace also represents the soul leaving for heaven. 

Plot: John George RABE – * Public 2/H/7

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